:'( i think that u should just talk to your mom and work soomething out with her like ask her can i work for lessons ect at this barn every monday,wedsday,friday(what u want) and i think that will take your mind off getting your own horse(if u dont got one)and help keep ur mom unstressed…it really gose both ways… hope this helps! ps:EVERYBODIE!! there is a really cool horse sim game where you can buy,breed,name,train,show,buy tack,sell horses…everything you do in real life for a horse…you do it thier…they are still making inprovements cause it is only like a month old but it is AWESOME! here is the site expage.com/cinderellasimsfarm